American Cancer Society: Finishing the Fight (sponsored video)

American_Cancer_Society_Logo2This is a sponsored post written by me on behalf of the American Cancer Society!  I’m thrilled to have this opportunity to share my experience with cancer as a part of the American Cancer Society’s 100th Birthday Celebration!  It’s important that my readers know a “sponsored post” means that I am being compensated for what I have written.  However, all thoughts and opinions are my own and I would never accept an invitation to write sponsored content if it wasn’t a project I truly stood behind.  In fact, I have decided that the compensation I will receive for writing this post will be donated to the American Cancer Society in an effort to finish this fight.

I learned at a young age to be afraid of cancer because my first experience with the disease left me without a best friend.  As a high school freshman, Mindy was diagnosed with a childhood cancer.  She felt a lump in her groin and I remember the day her sister called to tell me that it was indeed malignant.  I didn’t know what that meant exactly, but I knew it wasn’t good and the dictionary confirmed it; Evil and life threatening.  Cancer and its treatment ravaged Mindy’s ballerina body and turned her into a ghost – literally.  Nearly twenty three years later, I still miss her.

Fast forward to 2008.  I lay on a table with my left arm over my head, the doctors talked in whispers while looking at the computer screen.  Hot tears rolled into my ears and dripped onto the paper beneath me.  Two days later I got the call from my doctor who informed me that my own tumor was malignant.  Those words – evil and life threatening – burned into my brain years before were now mine.

I was 33 years old and I had stage II breast cancer.

In a couple of months, I’ll celebrate five years of being NED (no evidence of disease).  It didn’t come easy though as I endured several rounds of chemotherapy and weeks upon weeks of radiation treatment.  I take cancer blocking drugs daily and deal with the psychological aftermath of what this disease brings.  Two out of three people are cancer survivors.  I’m thankful to be one of these people.  I wish I could say the same for my sweet friend Mindy.

It’s been kind of cancer heavy around the blog this week but I’m an advocate at heart and truly believe that change cannot be made when we’re silent.  I’d love for you to take 1 minute and 34 seconds right now to watch this video.  The American Cancer Society will celebrate its 100th birthday on May 22, 2013 and they want to lead the loudest. most aggressive assault on cancer.  I hear their rally cry loud and clear.  Will you?

American Cancer Society has led the way in saving lives over the last century.  Their advancements in cancer research has contributed to a 20% decline in cancer related deaths since the early 1990s.  They have given nearly 1.2 million people more birthdays during that time!  All this thanks to 15 doctors and business leaders who thought it was time to start raising awareness about a topic many didn’t want to even talk about.  Think about the potential we have today to raise even more awareness!  Sharing this blog post or the video above with your friends and family is one simple step to finish this fight!

The goals of ACS include

• Ensuring lifesaving cancer research continues to get funded.

• Enroll 300,000 people in a historic research study known as CPS-3.

• Making sure the people who need assistance are getting it.

• Keep fighting the good fight so that we continue to celebrate more birthdays, have quality health care,  access to lifesaving screenings and more.

Will you join me in finishing this fight? 

All you have to do is share this blog post.  Tweet it.  Facebook it.  Heck, even email it.  Whatever you do, MAKE SOME NOISE!

This post is sponsored by the American Cancer Society

Cancer Be Damned – Send Kristin McQueen to the Kona Ironman

photo courtesy of itbuildscharacter.com

photo courtesy of itbuildscharacter.com

Kristin McQueen was diagnosed with metastatic thyroid cancer nearly 10 years ago.   The 34-year-old physical therapist has undergone 14 brain and neck surgeries since and she’s scheduled for number 15 this month.  Her cancer has become resistant to radiation treatment.  She suffers from chronic pain, nerve damage, hearing and vision loss, and vertigo – and that’s the short list.  Why am I telling you about her?  Oh, I don’t know… maybe because she is freaking amazing and I would love to see her dreams become a reality.

Kristin McQueen wants to compete in the 2013 Ironman® World Championship in Kona, Hawaii.

The short story is this:  The Ironman® Kona is the big Kahuna of Ironman races.  Competitors must qualify for this race.  This is the super cool part…the race is holding a contest where seven people will be awarded the opportunity to participate in the race!  It is Kristin’s dream to compete in this race and we need your help getting her one of those seven spots!

The contest theme is “Anything is Possible” – and we feel that Kristin embodies this mantra!  Metastatic cancer be damned…Kristin is hell bent on competing in the Ironman® World Championship!

How do we get Kristin there?

It’s up to a public vote initially and then a committee will judge (based on public interest) who best represents the theme “Anything is Possible.”  The public voting ends May 7th.

What we need you to do?

Watch Kristin’s amazing video http://bit.ly/SendKristinToKona and simply click on the “VOTE FOR THIS” button underneath the video to cast your vote.

That’s it.  And share, share, share… please!  If you know anyone with media connections, I encourage you to share THIS POST by Tracy Jensen of It Builds Character where you can learn more about Kristin McQueen’s health and her passion for competing.

#SendKristinToKona #KonaInspired

Act with Love

It’s been in the works for a couple of weeks now but today is the day!  I am thrilled to be featured on the Dr. Susan Love Research Foundation website today.  I was asked to write about being diagnosed with breast cancer shortly after becoming a new parent and how that experience has made me Act with Love!

I encourage you to click on over to DSLRF.org and read why I proudly Act with Love, what that means, and how you can get involved!

With that, I’d like to say hi to the readers clicking over from DSLRF.org or from the DSLRF Valentine’s Day email campaign.  You can get to know me better by clicking on this About Me link or read more about my breast cancer profile and treatment plan.  Or just click around and see what I’ve got to say.  I’m not all-cancer-all-the-time.  I like to say I’m much more than a survivor!

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Have a great Wednesday and go Act with Love – now!

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Who Do You Stand Up For?

Monday, February 4, 2013 is World Cancer Day.  Today we stand up for the people in our lives that have fought and won and for those who have fought and surrendered to cancer.   Thank you to Stand Up to Cancer and to everyone who submitted a photo.  Follow #istandupfor and @SU2C on Twitter, Instagram, and Facebook.

Who do you stand up for?  

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#IStandUpFor @LifeWithTheFrog's son Joey
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Many thanks to the following: Bryan & Audrey, Margot from Mommythoning, Karen, Katy from Chamorro Chica, Shelby & Emily, Rebecca from Real Mom of OC, Sharon from Cupcakes and Cutlery, Tracy from It Builds Character, Taylor-Ann from Kampen Lane, Robyn, Nicole from Ninja Mom Blog, Lidiya, Heather from Cheeky Woman, Jessica from Four Plus an Angel, Allison from Motherhood, WTF?, Sara from Periwinkle Papillon, Barbara & Dick, Alicia from Naps Happen, Courtney from Our Small Moments, Megan from Mama Bub, Amy from Beloved Atmosphere, Tom & Kathy from Marina Auto Body, J.D. Bailey from Honest Mom, Melissa from The Valentine RD, Ashley from It’s Fitting, Jamie from The Quirky Cork, Maribel from Stroller Adventures, Natalie from NatalieChiles.com, Aaron, Donna from Dangerous Cupcake Designs, Meredith from The Mom of the Year, Christie from I Can Style U, Sharon from Empty House Full Mind, Kim from Let Me Start by Saying & Kim Bongiorno Writes, Shelby, Gracie Frick from All Those Things I Love.

You can still join in!  Comment below and tell me who you stand up for!  Or download a SU2C placard here and tweet your photo to @SU2C and @wendy_nielsen, use instagram and hashtag #istandupfor, or post your photo directly to the Stand Up to Cancer Facebook wall

This is a non-sponsored post.  I proudly support Stand Up to Cancer!

Your Face, My Blog…this Monday for World Cancer Day

I want your face on my blog this Monday for World Cancer Day!

Calling all haters of cancer:

I want you to email me a photo of yourself telling the world who you stand up for.

The organization Stand Up To Cancer is participating in a campaign for World Cancer Day, February 4, 2013.  All you have to do is snap a photo of yourself with the SU2C placard saying who you stand up for.  Here’s a photo of the hilarious Eric Stonestreet from the show Modern Family showing who he stands up for.

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Eric Stonestreet

On Monday, I am planning a special World Cancer Day post here on my blog and I’m asking all of my friends and family to email me a photo of themselves with the SU2C placard.  I’m going to take that photo and post your gorgeous face on my blog!  Let’s tell the world who you stand up for!

To download and print the Stand Up to Cancer placard, click here.

Write who you stand up for and start snapping.  Your photo doesn’t have to be professional…stand in the mirror and click away with your iphone!

Email your photo to wendy@wendy-nielsen.com by Sunday evening (Yes, this Sunday evening…Superbowl Sunday…no later than 10:00 pm PST)!  

I will post your photo on my blog and will also share it with the @SU2C Facebook page, Twitter, and Instagram.  You can always post your own photos through those social media outlets as well.

Any photo deemed inappropriate will not be posted.  Eric Stonestreet is a SU2C’s celebrity ambassador.

Breast Cancer 101: Understanding the Breast Cancer Diagnosis

understanding-the-breast-cancer-diagnosisWe’re back this week with another Breast Cancer: 101 lesson!  Today we’re focusing on the specifics of the breast cancer diagnosis.

If you read here regularly, you know I’ve been writing about the television show Parenthood and the breast cancer story line they are doing this season.  Today’s lesson has been inspired by Kristina Braverman’s breast cancer diagnosis: HER2.

So, when the tumor is removed from your body it is sent to a pathology lab to be analyzed.  The lab looks at a lot of different things.  Far too many to explain in one post.  But, one of the specifics they determine is its hormone-receptor status, HER2 status, and whether the cancer is triple-negative.

Let’s break these down:

Hormone Receptor Status (ER+, PR+)

Breast cancer cells have receptors for the hormones estrogen and progesterone. Hormone receptors are proteins that are found in and on breast cells that pick up hormone signals telling the cells to grow.  Pathology will determine if your breast cancer is estrogen-receptor-positive (ER+) or progesterone-receptor-positive (PR+) or both.  Studies indicate that two out of every three breast cancers test positive for hormone receptors.

Treatment for hormone positive breast cancer (beyond chemotherapy and radiation treatment) includes hormonal therapy which can either lower the amount of estrogen in your body or block estrogen from supporting the growth of breast cells.

HER2 – positive

HER2 (human epidermal growth factor receptor 2) was discovered in the early 1980s.  HER2 is a normal gene that makes HER2 proteins.  Those HER2 proteins are receptors which helps control the growth of healthy breast cells.  However,  in about 25% of women diagnosed with breast cancer, there is a genetic mishap with the HER2 gene causing it to make more proteins than needed.  So you’ve got the HER2 gene making too many copies of itself and also making too many HER2 proteins (also known as amplification and over expression).  When this happens, you’ve got breast cells growing and dividing uncontrollably.

HER2 – positive breast cancers tend to grow faster and are likely to spread and come back to other parts of the body as compared to HER2 – negative breast cancer.

Treatment for HER2 – positive breast cancer (beyond chemotherapy and radiation treatment) includes a medication called Herceptin.  Herceptin was approved for use in 1998.  It blocks the HER2 signals from attaching itself to the HER2 receptors on breast cancer cells and blocking them from receiving growth signals.

Triple Negative  

Triple negative breast cancer is when pathology determines that the cancer tests negative for ER+, PR+, and HER2.  Triple negative breast cancer does not respond to hormone therapy or Herceptin treatment.

There is no additional treatment beyond chemotherapy and radiation treatment for triple negative breast cancer though studies indicate that triple negative cancers respond better to chemotherapy drugs compared to ER+, PR+, and HER2 breast cancers.  Some suggest that triple negative patients undergo chemotherapy first to see if the treatment reduces the size of the tumor.

There you have it.  My personal breast cancer diagnosis?   You can read all about it on my Cancer and Me page.

There won’t be a Breast Cancer: 101 lesson next week as I’m taking the entire week off!  But, I’m always around Facebook and Twitter, so if you have a question you can always ask.  There are no dumb questions!

So, back to Parenthood.  What did you think of this week’s episode?  I big puffy heart Jason Katims right now.

This information should not be used to substitute any professional medical advice.  If you have questions or concerns about breast cancer, I urge you to visit your physician.  Works cited: BreastCancer.org and Genetech

 

I’m Already Over Breast Cancer Awareness Month

It’s October 1st and I’m already over breast cancer awareness month.

You did know that today kicks off national breast cancer awareness month, right?  Well, it also marks the four-year-anniversary of my own diagnosis.  Believe me, the irony is not lost on me.  So, consider yourself warned: I will be writing a lot about “the big C” throughout the month.

I’d like to welcome the readers from She Knows!  The fabulous Jessica Watson (she also writes at her personal blog Four Plus an Angel) featured me along with nine other awesome bloggers who have battled breast cancer.  I’m proud to be amongst some exceptional bloggers and cancer advocates, including Nancy Stordahl from Nancy’s Point and AnneMarie Ciccarella from Chemobrain!

Now, the reason I’m already over breast cancer awareness month.  Maybe it’s the pink merchandise in every single store I go into.  I saw an old high school classmate ask on Facebook where she could find some cheap, pink, breast cancer trinkets.  I wanted to reply “Um, everywhere” but alas I refrained.  I certainly don’t want to sound bitter.  Ha!

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.10 from Uni-Ball and .10 from Staples.

Anyway, this is what really set me off this year.  A sign at my local Staples advertising pink Uni-Ball pens.  Ok, Uni-Ball pens are nice and I might have a few of the pink ones laying around the house.  But, Uni-Ball’s financial commitment is what kills me.  They are donating .10 from every sale of the 207 Pink Ribbon Gel pen to the City of Hope (Staples is matching the .10 donation).  Ok, there is some good and some bad here.

  • Good: City of Hope – a not-for-profit clinical research center and hospital in Los Angeles, CA.
  • Bad: 10 cents.  A 2-pack of the pens sell for $5 plus change.  I wish I knew how much it costs Uni-Ball to make gel pens.  It’s gotta be pennies, right?  .10 is a joke.  Their commitment is up to $50,000 so that means 1/2 million pens need to be sold.

The Uni-Ball situation irritates me but that’s just the tip of the iceberg I’m afraid.  I posted about   I heard about a documentary called Pink Ribbons, Inc. and I encourage you to watch the trailer!  I’ve got to get my hands on a copy.

 

Featured in the documentary is Dr. Susan Love of the Dr. Susan Love Research Foundation.  The goal of DSLRF is to find out what causes the disease and to find a cure for it!  This month they are launching the HOW study.

From the Executive Director of DSLRF:

HOW is not only for or limited to learning more about breast cancer in the United States. HOW is the first-ever global online study designed to examine causes, treatment, and prevention of breast cancer. 

So what’s involved?  Clicking the HOW (the Health of Women Study) link which is an online questionnaire for ALL men and women.  This is a first time study of this size and magnitude and they need YOU – regardless if you’ve had breast cancer or not – to complete the online survey!

I’ve participated in the HOW study and it took about 15-20 minutes total.  Register today at thehealthofwomenstudy.org

One day down, thirty to go.  Now go sign up for the HOW study.

Dear Breast Cancer | You’ve Been Warned

Dear Breast Cancer,

You truly suck. You’re a sneaky bastard and you play dirty. You prey on good people. People with families and friends. People who do great things in this world and you steal them from us. You take mothers from their children, wives from their spouses, daughters from their parents. You’re unfair and relentless. I hate you. Will you just go away already? Won’t you just stop ruining lives?

Consider this your last warning.

*flipping the bird* – Wendy

This post is dedicated to the following ladies who fought hard and changed lives along the way.

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Susan Niebur
@whymommy, writer at Toddler Planet, astrophysicist, and mom of two boys.

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Rachel Cheetham Moro
@ccchronicles, writer at Cancer Culture Now, “It’s time to move beyond pink ribbons and messages of ‘breast cancer awareness’, and start agitating for real and meaningful action in the fight to eradicate this disease for good.”

Hijacked Doctor Appointments

You know what happens when a television reality star is also waiting to see the same doctor? Well, I’ll tell you…your appointment gets hijacked because there is a bigger name in the room three.

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I remember when I was the patient the doctor want to see. I was the young one, the anomaly, the one she was most concerned about. I was the one she blew kisses at during last summer’s U2 concert. I was the one with the purple heart she drew on my arm during my lumpectomy surgery.

Now, while I wait in room one, I can hear the doctor through the paper thin walls tell said reality star that she’d be right with her and apologized for making her wait. Did you see that? It was me cocking my head at what the doctor said.

This is the doctor where, when I go to an appointment, I tell the babysitter that I could be gone from anywhere to an hour to three hours depending on how behind schedule the doctor is. This is the doctor who was at least 40 minutes late to the O.R. on the day of my surgery. She was also late on the day I had my port-a-cath removed and when the O.R. nurses found out who my surgeon was they gave me that knowing nod that they knew she’d be late too.  She’s never apologized to me for her chronic lateness.

But this was also the doctor who cleanly removed the cancerous tumor from my body. So, I’ll cut her some slack.

Only in Orange County, only in Orange County.

P.S. My mammogram and MRI came back looking good.

What Never Goes Out of Style? A Donation!

I’m so thrilled to work with Lee Jeans to help promote and fundraise for their annual Lee National Denim Day!

Denim Day was created in 1996 as a single-day fundraiser to fight breast cancer. This year, October 7 is Lee National Denim Day – a day when supporters nationwide come together to put on their jeans in exchange for contribution to the fight against breast cancer with the goal of raising millions of dollars in a single day. The money raised benefits the Women’s Cancer Programs of the Entertainment Industry Foundation (EIF) which include Lee Laboratories, the EIF Breast Cancer Biomarker Discovery Project and Cancer Support Communities.

Lee Jeans wants to raise the stakes this year. Are you ready for it?

Thirty bloggers will compete to RAISE THE MOST MONEY for breast cancer research!

I have LOTS of prizes to give away! AND…if Team Wendy Will Blog beats out the other 29 bloggers in raising the most money I will have a $250 shopping spree at Lee to give away!

Here are the FAQs!

When does the contest start and end?
- Fundraising contest begins September 20 – October 7, 2011.

How do I donate?
- Donations can be made online here at the Team Wendy Will Blog team page.
- You can donate by cash or check (made payable to Lee National Denim Day) and send them to me to mail in.

How much should I donate?
- Lee is asking you to donate whatever you’d normally spend on a new pair of jeans.
- I’m asking you to donate what you can.

Why is breast cancer research important?
- Because one in eight women will be diagnosed with breast cancer in her lifetime.
- One person is diagnosed with breast cancer EVERY THREE MINUTES in the United States.
- There were 207,000+ new cases of breast cancer reported in the U.S. last year and almost 40,000 deaths from the disease.
- There are more than 2.5 million SURVIVORS alive in the U.S. today (Yeah baby, and I’m one of them!)
- About 10-15% of breast cancers are found in women UNDER 45 years old!

What about the prizes?
- Grand Prize: A $250 shopping spree will be given away randomly to anyone who makes a donation by 10/7/11.*
- I will have one $100 gift card to Yard House Restaurants to give away randomly to anyone who makes a donation by 10/7/11.**
- I will have one pair of Lee Jeans for random give away to 2 separate people who make a donation by 10/7/11.***
- I will have ten pink ribbon pins for random give away to 10 separate people during who share on Facebook or Tweet this post during 9/20/11 – 10/7/11.***

Now what?
- Join Team Wendy Will Blog here!
- DONATE here on the Team Wendy Will Blog team page.
- Please come back here and leave a comment that “You’ve Joined the Lee Jeans Fight Against Breast Cancer!”
- Share this link on your Facebook page and you will be entered in the drawing for a pink ribbon pin! (leave a comment saying you did so)
- ReTweet this post on Twitter and you will be entered in the drawing for a pink ribbon pin! (leave a comment saying you did so)

 

The fine print:
Lee Jeans contacted me to partner with them on their annual Lee National Denim Day.
Lee Jeans has graciously given me two pairs of Lee Jeans and National Denim Day attire of my choosing.
*Lee Jeans will award the blogger who raises the most money during 9/20/11-10/7/11 with a $250 shopping spree. My intentions are to randomly give the $250 shopping spree at Lee to anyone who makes a donation through the Team Wendy Will Blog team page. I do not intend on keeping the $250 shopping spree for my personal use.
**I am personally donating a $100 gift card to Yard House Restaurants.
***Lee Jeans is donating both the two pairs of jeans and pink ribbon pins as incentive for donations.